"D-Day" seems to be approaching fast

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wow. I think you're right, TL... DB was great for me (as well as the great coach I had in you) helping me learn to be myself again, get stronger, become healthier. The going dark and other strategies gives a M time to see if it can survive by avoiding some stupid mistakes like begging and demanding. DB is good stuff. It can't save every M.

Curious, TL, what would you tell a new person on the boards, looking for help, hoping to save there M?

OT - good stuff. You make a strong point. What do you think now, after TL's response?