I have been following this advice. This weekend will be a good one. Will be gone with her all weekend and you can bet the W will not hear a word from me. Even if she asks, I have the "no cell service" excuse since we'll be in the mountains. Not that I will say it...
I had to call her today to go over some logistics. It was fine, but I was less upbeat than normal. In a bit of a funk.
She says some stupid crap. One, I brought up me getting her the following weekend for Fathers Day. I threw out there that if she wanted to keep D tonight to make up for the extra days, that would be fine. However, I would love to see her tonight.
She said something about "I am not going to punish you for having D on Fathers Day."
OK...
The she told me she requested the day off work for D's birthday in July.
I really don't even know what she was getting at. She said something like "I know we'll have to share her anyways."
I didn't follow up and she just said she'll let me know when she finds out if she got the day off.
Times like now I just wish I didn't need to talk to her or see her at all. Instead, I will see her tonight, tomorrow morning, and then again on Friday.
I need a vacation...
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