That $1000 a month, might not be a legal document, but it sets up legal precedence for later.
As for seeing the OM...
5 years later I still get flashes of hurt if I think about it...momentary and quick, but there none the less.
Any chance your son would understand if you dropped him off out of view of the parking lot?
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Sometimes, I wonder how much I can take.
Not to be trite, but sounds like about another year.
When we LBS imagine what its like for them, we tend to glamorize it. Earth shattering sex, gourmet dinners, giggle whispers and endless "I love yous", making fun of the LBS and our pathetic lifestyle. Fantastic getaway weekends.
And that...is not what real life is. She farts in bed and he has pimples on his ass.
You are in a better place Be, you're a better more complete person.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
