Life is a highway

[LearningPatience]

9,
if this same sitch with the new girl were happening with me, I might feel the same as you. The loneliness and need for companionship weighs heavy inside us all. I'll be honest that starting something with a new person sounds good...

and then I'd use my own internal 2x4 on myself, at least for now.

Do i went to get mixed up with this baggage? I dont know, I just want to get to know her and see if anything sparks. Perhaps this is two people that are not in the right frame to start a relationship but who knonws. All i know is that last night, I didnt think about my w very much for the first time in a very long time. She has this sweet voice and is very pretty.

Ask and be honest with yourself if this the road you want to go down. Do you want and/or can you handle all the additional drama (trust me, I know about additional drama:)

Still, it *is* nice to connect with someone new of the opposite sex. It's a great ego boost and, even if it isn't the road you want to go down, provides the confidence that makes us that much more attractive overall.

I'm happy you had this opportunity, keep it up!