Life is a highway

[ninelives]

Thanks for taking the time to stay with me. The support really means a lot as I have all but stopped talking about it with my friends.

Last night, I called this girl from the city. She appears to be very nice. We chatted for about 3 hours which is a good sign but she got out of a really bad situation recently so I am going to be cautious. And I did tell her about my sitch as well. IT made me feel better talking with her as she has many qualities Im looking for that my wife did not. She appears to be very upbeat and I read some of her quotes on facebook that she likes and they were deep.

Also, she is in education and understands the dilemmas that we face in this new age with kids. I dont know how this will play out obviously but I am intrigued. She also told me that she has sewn her oats so to speak. Has did her fair share of travelling and is comfortable in her own skin. It would be nice to hook up with someone that is not insecure and has done some things. My wife always complained that she never got a chance to do anything with her life or go to many places. Hence part of the midlife crisis I think.

This new girl had a horrible relationship recently that ended as bad as it gets. She met a guy from another town about 3 hours away, they would hang with her sister. Sister was recently married (for the second time). All good until new girl's boyfriend started being a little rude to her. Was flirting with her newlywed sister. New girl joked with her boyfriend and mentioned the flirting which he denied and became angry. Long story short, her sister ends marriage, and takes off with her boyfriend.

Do i went to get mixed up with this baggage? I dont know, I just want to get to know her and see if anything sparks. Perhaps this is two people that are not in the right frame to start a relationship but who knonws. All i know is that last night, I didnt think about my w very much for the first time in a very long time. She has this sweet voice and is very pretty.

Maybe she just needs a nice guy; ( moi) and I need a nice girl to get to the other side.

I am open and honest with her and she has been the same with me.

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