What to do when nothing is working

[liz_palmer]

Okay, so here's our typical day when he's home from working - we ran errands together, went grocery shopping together, came home and put groceries away together, made lunch together and then sat in the family room and watched some DVR'd shows he likes together. We discussed what to have for dinner and I got up to make it. He comes in to check on me to see if I need help, if I do - he helps, otherwise he goes back to family room. We cleaned up dinner together and packed his work bag together. When we went to bed last night I initiated some personal time, which he enjoys but won't yet initiate. When all was over he looked at me and said, "we've got to stop doing this." then chuckled. I responded with a laugh.

I will say that one of my 180's is the initiation of personal time (this was one of his complaints). Another one of my 180's is talking more and letting him know what I like/don't like. So I imagine his confusion is at an all time high right now.

Even though I didn't show it, he threw me for a loop when he said that last night. I wasn't sure what to think.

Liz