Hmmmm, love these forums they make me think constructively. Is she cake eating ..........nah because I split the bills to make it fair and she has to be responsible.

Am I DB my but off ...........................no, changing all for the better .....yes, I have identified my faults and will work on them but I do believ a complete physical seperation is needed for X amount of time.
The more I agree to a seperation the more it seems she finds herself at home even when she doesn't have to be.

A divorce care clip says the line of reconcilliation can work in a 6 month cycle with each spouse moving towards and away from it hopefully finally landing there at the same time.

Dunno..............maybe time is my friend, it does make things less bitter so far.


H 37
WW 37
M 15
5 Children
Bomb 9-27-10
W EA/Pa
she filed 12-18-10