Originally Posted By: sandi2

When she thinks you may be detaching a bit, she ups the pressure. So, be warned.... b/c she will push all buttons available before she will be convinced it won't get a response from you.


In it's simplest form...if you watch her, you are not watching yourself.

You have a huge opportunity here. Move on and "act as if" you don't want her. WE know the truth. That's where acting comes in.

Just FYI, I've been divorced for a little over 6 months and guess who contacts me? It's DB 101 and Sandi has a huge part in this. (Thank you AGAIN Sandi)

Why? because I'm not available. They will test you. When I said "make her regret her choice" I mean you live your life and they come a knockin'. Maybe you come to the conclusion that you let her back in, maybe you don't, but the empowerment of change and having that choice, it's a miracle in itself. If you live for you, regardless how hard the choice is, YOU still always have YOU.