Anger Management though? Anything you can share about this in your marriage? Issues like these can be a "form" of abuse. Share if you wish. I had issues as well. Believe it or not, alot of it comes down from self esteem issues. In which you seem too be really working on. Good job!
Your road to change is positive. You don't know me or any of us, but please, if you EVER need to vent....come here and VENT. We will continue to support you without judgement.
Remember #37 Do not backslide from your hard earned changes.