"Your marriage is like a home that your entire family lives in. When the structure is damaged, it becomes an unpleasant place to live. But there are ways to rebuild the structure."
well Lotus ... my "home" seems to need consant maitanance... But YES Retrouvaille was the begining.. it was like getting an estamate on the repairs and if they were worth while....And they were....
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know