Jack the image of someone in MLC isn't that far off what from H is doing. Yes he did buy an expensive sports car and he's doing his subordinate. Ewwww makes me sick thinking of it.
And yes Braveheart I have protected myself financially. I seperated our accounts after 1 mnth. He blew all our money and savings within that time. This forum was so helpful and is the reason why I knew what I had to do. Most of the MLCers actions are quite predictable when you think about it. It's up to the LBS to realise if they are willing to put up with it and for how long. And although their actions are predictable the outcome unfortunately is not. Again it's up to the LBS to take the risk of staying or moving on.
I guess in a way what my doctor and I did last night was to analyse the situation, my H and me. We tried to take a sensible approach to a non sensible situation. I didn't say this last nite but she did conclude that based on what I had told her that the sensible thing to do would be to move on. Although she did say to take my time in doing so because it's too soon to make a move.
Im not sure entirely what to do. So I've decided to follow what I know the right thing to do in this situation is: to live my life like H is never coming back. And u know what I'm ok with that.
W - 31 H - 33 Married - 7 years Together - 10 yrs Kids - S 3yrs old Separated - 27/03/11 OW - 10/04/11
