Originally Posted By: zero12
The question "what would it do" makes me think that perhaps you're trying to manipulate her. Making her miss you by going dark is one thing, being unavailable when she needs to discuss real issues is another.


I meant what good whould this do to the situation by replying that way, I just dont want her to think that I will roll over when she wants something. Her reply email was right on the time she finishes work, so W wouldn't pick up a reply untill tomorrow anyhow

Originally Posted By: zero12
Whether you want to help her out is entirely up to you. If you don't want to help her because it's inconvenient, that's fair. If it is no inconvenience and you're just holding out because you want to teach her a lesson, then it's just pettiness.


I dont mind helping out for important issues, I may say I will just have the kids, no need to swap days.


Me - 37
W - 38
D - 14
S - 12
Together - 16
Married - 12
Bomb - April 13, 2011
W moved out - May 13, 2011

The man I became is changing back to the man I was........... and more