I had noticed that after she told me that she wishes she could find someone like my H, she started sitting outside with him more and going with him on calls when I was in class. It was at this time that I had mentioned to him that it seemed like he was spending more time with her than he was me. I believe that caused a fight that day.
At some point after she first decided to confront me with my H being done with me. I was going through his phone looking for a number for a call we were on and had noticed a contact name of "B" in his phone. I clicked it and realized that it was the roommate's cell number. It was about that time the customer walked up to sign the invoice. I was upset but finished with the customer and went to see if there were any txts between them. Sure enough there was about meeting him after a call and riding with him. I was mad and shaking and than I was caught when my H went to get in the truck.
He looked at me and says well...you took that better than I thought. It was a test because you go through my phone so I had her send a message to it.I didn't really say anything. I had tears rolling down my face. I really didn't believe him either.
He would get so upset when I told him I trust you but I don't trust her. He would say than you don't have trust in me.
M 27 H 27 M 1yr and 5mths together: 8yrs no kids separated since: 1/26/11 H filed and had me served: 7/6/11
