I suggest you read the chapter on the addicted spouse b/c that's the root of so many issues here
and you've given it a darn good try for years...it's obviously a pattern in your life
do want it to continue to define your life?
You may have told the addict/alcoholics in your family that they can break the cycle
so the question is, can you?
Will you do whatever it takes?
Good
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016