Affair (continued II)

[25yearsmlc]

yes Patience...I have been thinking. It seems that me just acting normal, with out the sadness and moping around helped some.

maybe that's b/c she doesn't want to feel obligated to comfort you in your pain. She's the aggrieved party, not you. It's probaby very annoying to see you implicitly wanting HER to comfort YOU...So don't play the part of victim b/c it really looks like that if you mope in front of her. Plus it's NOT attractive. She wants to think you can be trusted and strong enough not to cave in to temptation again. So show your strength, not your weakness or neediness. Couldn't SHE walk around sad all the time, given the situation? But she's not...so don't make this about how YOU feel...do you see why?


I kept myself busy taking care of things around the house.[b][b] I even got a small hug from the [/b]W. [/b]

that's HUGE!!


My eyeore side is telling me to watch out and be careful, but I am trying to ignore him and not feed into that trap. Seems like it spells disaster everytime I do.

YES IT DOES HURT YOUR CAUSE...no mystery here. Not complicated.
What happened to the Tigger approach?

YOUR "Changes" HAVE TO LAST MORE THAN A WEEKEND CHRIS, or no one will believe they are real. ...COME ON NOW...