You know you cannot control him. When he's drinking he really isn't in control of himself. Do what you need to do to protect and maintain yourself.
In my distorted LBS view a WAS is running away, as LP posted mostly from themselves, into their own private he!!. IMO what you're describing is standing for your principles. Stay safe.
BITS Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55 D 30 S 27
You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill