Need help...don't know what to do...

[chris1102]

Here is a little more background of my sitch with my H. Before me and my H started the business together he would sit in my vehicle while I was at work and wait for me to go on my breaks.

When we started the business it was slow at first until he started subcontracting from someone that is in the same type business. He would wait in the parking lot while I was at work till he had a call.

I met the roommate at my job as she was the one who trained me when I started. I watched the way she was with interacting with everyone else. We started out as somewhat friends and I would go to her apt to hang out with her. We ate lunch together and at that time her ex still lived here and would come over to see her. If anyone saw the way they were together you would swear they were still dating.

I had noticed that she would do or say things to make him jealous or upset. I asked at one point if they were together and she said no. WE started living with her before we got married. She decided I was her best friend at some point and we hadnt even been friends that long. I noticed later she would be depressed quite often and would mope around often sitting by herself outside. My H would tell me she is my friend and i need to find out what was wrong with her.

I would often tell him that when she ready to talk she would tell me what was wrong. He would usually end up going outside and sitting with her trying to comfort her.

It was sometime after we had been married for atleast four months that she started trying to start fights between us. I had started realizing it and would calmly ask my H about it.

It was some point when we moved into the new house after her male friend stopped coming by that she got depressed again. She had mentioned that she wishes she could find some like my H. She let seeing all her friends back home on FB getting married and having kids get to her. She would often talk about how she didn't think she was going to ever find someone.