What to do when nothing is working

[liz_palmer]

Actually, it's her. She calls and texts him and he takes the calls and responds to the texts - sometimes ALL DAY LONG! Literally. I have seen the phone bill. He' an over the road truck driver and she works at his terminal. So she calls him and texts him while he's on the road to the point where mutual friends have told me she neglects her two young children. (She has 3 kids by 3 different men).

I have told him from the start that I felt disrespected by the amount of contact during our home time and he responds by telling me that she's just a friend.

This morning he says that on vacation (in a week)he's going to make some repairs around the house. My daughter, mother and I are going to PA for a family reunionn that he bowed out of, so he will be home alone for a week. The repairs are on the list of things to be done for the house to be put on the market. So selling is still on his mind.

Yet last night we actually snuggled and slept wrapped in each others arms, which hasn't happened in months.

Liz