Well, W confirmed that she has seen a lawyer, but insists she's got no plans to file anytime soon. I'm skeptical but detached. It's painful to see how my S15 handles this...whenever he sees us in the den watching tv together he comes in, plunks himself down on whatever furniture is between she and I, and seems to be trying the togetherness "on for size" or something, like he wants that feeling of security from being surrounded by the people who are supposed to be providing that. It breaks my freaking heart. He was always the one who always wanted to snuggle between us when he was a baby/toddler. He always would "touch base" with us whenever he was rambling through the room and saw us sitting on the couch together...he'd have to come over and climb up...he'd sit between us or, if we were sitting close together, he'd sit on our legs where my leg was touching her leg, give each of us a hug or a kiss, then climb back down and go about his merry way smile It was cute.

The crazy thing is that the job/promotion that my wife is using to fund her divorce from me is with an evanglical, protestant, mainstream conservative church, in a position of Christian leadership. Crazy.


You keep using that word. I do not think it means what you think it means. -- Inigo Montoya, 'The Princess Bride'