2. last line - she says that she still wants me to hang with her, do stuff as a family. Said she likes and still respects me. But said some hurtful things and clearly doesn't want me to live in the same house with her. When I look at her, I see someone who doesn't want me to live with her.
3.MC - I have no idea. I suggest this very thought and she said we should still see him.
4. Kids - one of my main concerns. She thinks they need her and they will be fine mostly if we structure it in a certain way.
5. Safe - her dunno. I don't think she fears me in terms of physical/emotional issues. I think she means like in a safe, secure relationship. Like she doesn't trust me not to hurt her feelings with some of my actions i.e. snooping.
I don't know if this is some bullsh!t scam so she can be with her mentor. I don't think so, I think she is sincere in working on us. But I have seem some crazy stuff on the forums here guys who get blindsided by their W or STBXW
Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. --Jean Jacques Rousseau.