Hope things work out for you GN. Really I do. That lifestyle is not my cup of tea but I mentioned that i have two really good friends that do that once in a blue moon and they are still together and I dont think any less of them.
Question: What happens if you start to feel jealous and that is not what you thought it was going to be? I guess you cross that bridge IF you get there.
Also, I know another couple that tried this open marriage thing and since some guys will stick their willie anywhere, ( not judging your wife's looks btw), it is usually easier for her to pick up. Especially if she is playing for both teams.
In my buddies case, they had an open marriage but she was the one getting all the openenss if I can use this term and he was getting nada.
Needless to say, that marriage broke up.
Just something else to consider.
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