You guys are both right. I was only trying to be the bigger person here. She had me over for youngest sons bday and made a big deal that i show up for that. I was only wondering if the appropriate thing to do would recipricate this first year. I dont want that crazy beyoutch here but oldest son does love her.

Just wonder if I am looking small by not recpricating.

Update:

Just dropped off youngest son at the set time. Was 15 minutes late. W called as I was dropping him off apparently.

OM 's truck was in the driveway. I slipped a little curse word to myself as I pulled up in front of her house. Youngest son caught it. What dad he said, . Nothing i said but I think he knew. Damn. I said, Ok buddy , gotta go. I popped the trunk and he got his stuff and I left.

Like I said, W called my house while this was going on and asked if I was dropping son off yet. Oldest son told her that I was and she said, " OH Sh1t" and then hung up.

I dont know board. Im pretty cautious about people's feelings and really dont want to hurt people. I even have trouble sometimes swinging 2x4s here. Its just not my nature.
I would not ever had done some of the things. Okay, I get it, shes in a relationship with him. But please have some decency. She says she wants to be my friend down the road. I dont know, its been tough since my birthday and I have come out of it today with the boys. Had a good day mostly cleaning up and getting the pool ready. YOungest son is a fish and braved the coldest i have ever felt it. It was a fun day.

I know Im letting this get to me. I would just like to heal a little more before I have to confront that deuche bag , even though I didnt see him, it still hurts. I have to man up soon and let that crap slide right off me.

What a beyotch.

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BITS
M-46
W-42
M-16y
T-19 y
s10 s15
BombDec.19/09
Sep-F16/10
Sep Papers signed by W- June 30/10
Recon July 5/10
PA foundOut- Oct 30/10
Mental HospNov/10
moved out Nov/10
Leg Sep Mar 15/11