I suggested to son that we have a small pool party with some of his closest friends and I could have some of her crazy family over.
Dont want to have her sister over but i will put out the invite. She hosted youngest sons birthday in march and I thought it would only be fair that I host this one and if need be, I will drive son to city with friend, not her.
Why??? I don't get it!!
I have been around divorced couples in families all of my life and the only time I ever saw the families together was the weddings, funerals, and births. Why on earth would you do this? Have a party for him. Let his mother and her side of the family give their party for him. That is how families do when they are split.
Why call yourself going dark and do that? I just don't get it. Are you co-dependent on her that badly?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
