Welcome aboard and I'm sorry you are experiencing this.
Originally Posted By: direction1
In Feb. 2011 wife approached me and said she has started seeing a counselor and really need me to go with her the next week. i agreed...and was attacked in the session, totally blind sided. The tyipical, she's been unhappy for awhile, wonders why I'm distant, etc.
Did she list out more reasons? Can you write out specifics on your next post.
It's all too common to not know WTF happened, but it happens and it happens for many reasons.
You really need to listen to what she said, even if you don't agree with it. No matter what, you can't control what another person thinks or feels.
Why is she unhappy? Is she basing her unhappiness on you or did she say why she is not happy? Each person here is responsible for their own happiness.
Why were you distant? What is she really trying to tell you?
Post as much detail as you can about the "counseling" revelations.
Keep reading DR and I'll give you a list to help support your LRT.
