Thanks for the suggestions, already ordered LL, will have a look at the others, much appreciated.

On the point of the kids not been eating properly should I speak to MIL about it. Is it worth it or would it come across as bitter etc?

been thinking about it and w has been of this week so has had plenty of time to prepare meals etc

Me - 37
W - 38
D - 14
S - 12
Together - 16
Married - 12
Bomb - April 13, 2011
W moved out - May 13, 2011

The man I became is changing back to the man I was........... and more