IDK Green. Its seems to me like you are doing something that you Really dont want to do and are walking on pins and needles in case you do the wrong thing.
Is that the way you want to live your life? You must always be competing with someone else for her affection and for her desire.
It may work for awhile, but I dont know if it something that will last and then you will be back here again.
Otoh, there are people that really work this type of marriage and they are still happily married. I guess the question you must ask yourself is; " Is this something I would seek out if not backed into a corner?'
I dont want to judge, this is not what this site is all about. Just be sure this is the route you want to take because I dont know about you, but IF is stay on this site, its to be helping others, Because I dont think I could go through this again.
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