When she presents her issues to you (in an R talk SHE begins and only if you cannot extricate yourself...)
You listen...and listen some more. No defending...
But if she says something insanely untrue, you can say "wow, I don't recall it that way but I'm sorry you felt hurt"
and if she says something that rings true, like maybe you did blow it or do something off,
then you say "if I had it to do over, I'd do a lot of things differently"...
she cannot argue with either approach of yours and you are owning your issues in the second example.
that's all you have to say and only if you are forced... point is, you're showing that marriage to you from this day forward,
would be different than before. That's key.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
