The difference I see it is that until reading DR I was pushing her away by being needy and forcing talk of the R. While reading DR on Thursday, I texted her to apologize for the pressure I had been applying and until that point and also let her know that she was about to witness a renewed effort from me, and asking for some time and her patience. Now I HAVE TO stick to the plan.
You've done this one time and that's ok. Please don't do this again. It was honest and true gesture on your part, but it will put pressure on her. Your actions are more important than any words you can say right now.
It was honest and true gesture on your part, but it will put pressure on her. Your actions are more important than any words you can say right now.
