I'm not "demanding" anything, I am just encouraging her to leave a mean, abusive, non-loving, and cheating partner. I just have a different outlook on things, it doesn't mean I am unsympathetic or uncaring, I just want more for people who have lived in misery for so long. Some of you people really make me laugh! Some of you spend YEARS trying to get back with someone who has treated you like camel dung, and I encourage some of you to move on and get away from it, and I make you "crabby"? Is there something wrong with that picture? I think so!