After posting on StillLearning and NineLives threads I now know where the three of us are in our darkness pact - between 8 and 14 days I believe. I hope my BID's (brothers in darkness) don't mind me saying this: the 3 of us having something else in common - we are weak when it comes to our STBX/WAW. We all just can't seem to completely drop the rope, regardless of what we say.

It's kinda like we are the 3 weak kids in high school banding together to protect ourselves from the school bully. I hope that makes sense and no one is offended.

D19 returns from vacation in Mexico with her bf today. It will be nice to have them back. I have a family home to clean. On to day 11.


50 years old.

Ontario, Canada

Loving Marriage #2 with the perfect person.