I meant total darkness - as in nothing between the two of you. STBX is likely quite happy having no contact at all, so I seem to finally be doing something that she likes!!! We have had zero contact for the last 10 days. I still plan on contacting on her b'day, since by then it will most likely have been almost a month of complete darkness and 2 months since actually seeing each other.
The last time I initiated contact was well over a month ago. Really - why would we contact them? Would we contact other people who dislike us so much they would change their entire lives just to be away from us?
