I was always the one who either didn't mind or actually liked doing the chores. Now, I have the tiny apartment that takes no time to keep up, and W (who wanted more freedom) has the house, animals, yard, etc. Funny how life works sometimes.

My closest friends know that I need to avoid W, but of course they don't understand just how much it affects me. I will say, though, that the last several group emails for meetups, etc have not included W or OM on them. My friends are still friends with them, but don't have much respect for them.

OK, maybe an early morning run will help.


Me 43 W 38
M 5 T 7
SD20
S15, S13 with 1st W
ILYBNILWY June 2010
Separation/Bomb July 2010
Divorce Feb 8, 2011