You navigated those situations well and avoided a confrontation with your W when you are clearly not ready for it. That was smart.
Why be drawn in with more pain. I driving by her house now like the plague. Even if take an extra 10 minutes to backtract. It just helps me alleviate any undue pain.

I once thought that I have to confront this head on , and I will again, but when I am stronger and ready.

Staying dark seems to help alot. Keep doing what you are doing.

And if you are caught up with all your chores around your place, Well done. I have a full day of laundry, pool prep, general clean up of my deck . Etc......

Keeps me busy but sometimes overwhelms. I hate folding laundry but am getting better at it.

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BITS
M-46
W-42
M-16y
T-19 y
s10 s15
BombDec.19/09
Sep-F16/10
Sep Papers signed by W- June 30/10
Recon July 5/10
PA foundOut- Oct 30/10
Mental HospNov/10
moved out Nov/10
Leg Sep Mar 15/11