Thanks Rabbit....so glad things are going so well for you. I think making time for each other is crucial so that you have things to look forward to. It's about addressing each other's needs isn't it? I am wondering if this will ever happen in my situation. H still seems caught up on his needs. He sees me if it fits in with his plans but if he's tired or busy it seems he doesn't manage to compromise in any way. I am trying hard to keep things smooth and not be too demanding/needy but it's still really all about him. I am starting to feel a bit resentful about this I think and although I do try to remind myself that it's early days and he's made no commitment to me I do feel heartily sick of it all. Trying to whinge here so I don't bombard him!!