Hun you are not wrong to be tired of iniating, and perhaps when you feel the time is right you should very cheerfully tease him its his turn to organise the next date! Or do you feel its a date or is it more meeting a mate for coffee?

Dont settle for less just because you think its what everyone wants! It really has to be perfect for you first and then everyone will be happy you are happy..

Im fine lots going on and a fantastic trip to Vienna for my 25th wedding anniversary. We really try and make time with each other and if life goes a bit pearshaped and busy we plan some thing in so we have it to look forward too instead of feeling neglected.

I think your journey is going to be slow but for it to be the perfect ending you deserve dont rush it however frustrating it might be!

Take care hun!

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W 47
H 47
M 24
T 30

Once lost but now found and happily married again!