No one deserves to be treated badly, EVER. As long as you have fixed your part and are working towards your goals of bettering yourself, your path is your choice.
Can you explain this? I've read it a couple times through and still can't figure this out....
"I requested my name now be on the account, but that would require she let go of control."
Why request? Can't you just go get your own? F*ck her right now.
"She began to extole the virtues of her new man and declared how she didn''t need me anymore. She did say she needed to make a choice and my failure to do anything to convince her to stay (while she's banging OM) was the last straw. I should have said something to OM."
Pure spew and blah blah blah. Man, it's almost comical. It's a test + part crazy + pain killer = That comment. It's quite sad...do you you feel sorry for her yet? I do.
We wouldn't survive more than an hour if we were inside their heads.
"Tonight I am slightly upset, but I'm letting myself feel it. And I don't have TV to watch."
Don't blame you. All this crap does help you find your path eventually.