Need help...don't know what to do...

[chris1102]

As I sit here and think about my sitch. I don't even know what category I fall under. I'm not sure I would be considered a WAW because I left the house in fear of my safety and sanity.

While, it started out as I was only going to stay at my F's house turned out to be longer because the roommate talked my H into changing the locks on me.

The roommate started telling me my H was done with me and that he wanted a clean break. He later started paying for her to eat when she wanted to go out and I got left at the house. He is still staying in the house with her even though my F would not let him stay here at his house.

I have talked to a relationship coach a few months ago who told me that I married a boy not a man. To that I wanted to know how I can fix that. I was also told that I am living the movie fatal attraction by describing my sitch to him. I guess, the most recent movie to describe what I am going through would be either Obsessed or the other movie I havent seen yet, The roommate.

I'm confused as to why my H called his F friday to find out if he knew where I was because the roommate was trying to start more stuff and she was going to be out with some friends at a local bar. My BIL was the one who relayed the message to me. My FIL was relieved to know that I was with my BIL and not by myself. I don't know what she is trying to start now.

I'm not in the house with them, I don't communicate with my H that much. She has my H and my dog at the house with her and her name on the business me and my H started together. I have nothing left for her to take from me. I guess having my life is not good enough for her.

I started my seminar class saturday in criminal investigations. I have seven chapters to study for the midterm next week and a research paper to write that is due the 20th. Class just started and already piling up with work maybe it will take my mind off of this for alittle while. I am finding it alittle hard to concentrate on school right now though.