Here is the deal. As I said I saw our MC on Thursday. It was highly productive. He said that he wants to meet with my wife and I again, soon.
But I don't necessarily want to bring it up with my W, because it will devolve into a R talk. I can't keep waiting because I don't want my W to think I'm hiding my MC visit (I told her but I doubt she remembers) and I want to meet with the MC sooner rather than later. But to do that I have to talk to her.
I really think the MC might give me W an "out" for the living apart thing. Anywho. Thoughts? Advice? Ideas? I think it's probably going to be tomorrow.
And 25, I realized something the other day. I haven't looked at phone records for almost 2 weeks. I haven't snooped one bit, not one. Why? After meeting with the MC, I realized my mistake. I kept trying to not snoop for my W. I mean I love her and I want to treat her with respect. But for me that wasn't a good reason. I know it sounds selfish, but I needed to not snoop for ME and ME alone. Once I realized that it kinda clicked and make is much easier.
I think our conversations along with the MC visit really help on this.
No R talk all week, positive interactions. How's that? eh
Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet. --Jean Jacques Rousseau.
