Sadly you will probably never know. In the grand scheme of things it doesn't matter. I was angry at ex for a long time. I still don't agree with what he did, he hurt us all. For the kids though, I treat him like the mailman. There is some sort of truce going on. Peace can be a good thing.

Kat

Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory