Cyrena,

"Your H will only feel that you are bullying him to do something he really hates to do (which probably brings mother-baggage into the situation)."

You are absolutely right! Thank you.

"Plus, the OW would only think, "She made him say that," rather than accepting it."

Yup.....and when he did send it to her and cc to me the first time, she wrote back and said just that!

I'll drop it. Thanks!

M 55 H 58 M 24 T 29
S 22,21, 19
Bomb 4/10
It (A) really isn't about you 11/2013
We all have work to do


The truth will set you free, but it will almost kill you first.