I want mad at my friend but it made me wonder. Maybe she wont regret any of this and is thinking that he is paying attention to her like a didnt do. I let my coaching and kids and life in general get in the way of showing her how much I really cared.
Cmon 9, snap out of this funk, life really is too short.
The A happened, because her emotional needs weren't being met. Horrible choice on her part, but she can't see it yet.
This will all get better with time. Just really focus on your part of the marriage failure and work to fix you. Not in a vindictive/punitive way, but make her regret her choice 9.
Get back up, dust yourself off, and keep moving forward at your personal goals. Try (and I mean try) to not dwell so much on the negatives thoughts.
