Originally Posted By: ninelives
BTW, a woman that I know that was at the trade fair asked how I was doing.

M: IM good, just trying to move on

her: I can see the pain behind your eyes, its going to take time

M: Really, you can see that. Well how about now ( as I smiled)

her: better but still see it, on a positive note, you are the most eligible bachelor on this island and it wont be long before you find someone. You have everything going for you.

M: Thanks , Ill try and remember that.

her: seriously, you have a good job, handsome, you look great,
dont worry, it will happen.

It was very strange. I had at least 12 people tell me I looked great. Either they were trying to be nice or noticed something, like I have mentioned, I have dropped close to 50lbs.

And I am dressing better and make a point of shaving every day. I did not do that in the past.

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Very nice 9. I'm sure that you are going to be just fine when you come out on the other end. And I also bet that it is just a matter of time before you W sees what others are seeing... if she hasn't already.

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M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce