it has been two weeks today since she walked out. She has called crying and screaming and blaming me 10 of the 14 days she has been gone. She is accusing me of keeping the kids from her. I have bending over backwards trying to accomodate her with them. She is not willing to give me or them a time line of her getting them. She waits until the last minute to call and say she wants them. She told me yesterday that she feels she is about to have a nervous breakdown. She was yelling and crying so hard that I could not understand what she was saying. I dont understand what is going on, she was confident when she left, but since she did, its been nothing but crazy, eratic behavior. She was off yesterday, I didnt know that, she told the kids she was and if they wanted to hang out to call her. Well come 1 oclock in the day she finally called freaking out, that I should have called her to come get the kids. I asked the kids if they had heard from her around 10:30 that morning to see if she wanted to spend time with them, and they said no. My youngest wanted to go fishing, and I felt it was not my fault or theirs why this is happening, nor should we put our lives on hold. So we went fishing, and then the fireworks started. She called my d14 and yelled at her, my d14 told her that we didnt hear from her,and to stop yelling at her. My d14 hung up on her, and started crying saying that mom acts like all of this if my fault. I reassured her that it wasnt and mom loves her and she is just going through some things right now. When I talked to w she told me that she would break d14's phone if she ever hung up on her again. I told her that the kids can hear her screaming through the phone and that I would call her back later, and she screamed that she didnt care if they could hear her, so I hung up the phone. She called back like 6 times and I didnt answer until kids were out of my truck at the beach. I told w that kids were upset and she advised she didnt care and they need to cry. She said they dont care about her, and then said the me and kids dont miss her, and dont care about her. I told her this was all due to the decision she made two weeks ago to walk out and they just needed time to adjust to it. Again she said she didnt care. I told her that she was their mother and if she wanted to spend time with them, then she needed to call their cell phones and let them know. I will not be the middle man for her, as I think the only reason she is doing this is to take my tempature. I have been detached from her two weeks before she moved out and have been GALing. The OM has still yet to leave his wife as I thought would never hapen anyway. I think at this point reality is starting to kick in. I will do my very best to continue to detach, and make sure I look out for the best interest of my kids. I love them ,and I will not let her or anyone else hurt their hearts or minds. I miss my w, and I know that she will have to go to god before she can be better. I truly think at this point, it will not get any easier, as it seems she is really heading for a total breakdown. The fairytale cannot be going as planned if she if doing all of this at this point into the WAW.
God bless you all.