Australian/US connection-is He a WAH or MLC?

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I want to make sure I am understanding you correctly. Your H wants you to pay him for "babysitting" his own children? If that's the case it's pure BS. Those are his children also, he does not deserve to be paid. Does he pay you for having them all the other times? I bet not.

TG brought up some interesting points. What is it that you want? Are you happy staying in a M where you are doing 90% of the household work?
I know sometimes life isn't fair, but this is really unfair.