even though I did the same thing (reading about MLC and men's life changes, etc) or maybe because I did those same things,
I'd suggest you read more about how YOU will create a more fulfilling joyous life. And about phases your children are likely to go through with this situation. Be the best Dad you can be, and the best man you can be.
My biggest regret in looking back, is all the time I WASTED (yes, wasted, b/c the answers do NOT matter until IF and WHEN THEY get it...no point in reading for the "Secret answer" b/c the secret is that there is no secret) on obsessing and "studying" H...
Trying to figure out "Why" and "How can he" and blah blah blah... Making it all about HIM...
Instead, it should have been all about "what can I do for me and my children to have an even better life, starting today?"
Learn from my experience. Good luck.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
