She told me last night that she didnt want to go to a MC because they would want to discuss how to save the M and she isnt there yet 100%. I know that is hard to hear... are you kidding? That's GREAT NEWS!! HOW CAN YOU NOT SEE THIS??? IT's less than a month since you turned her world upside down...and you say it's "hard to hear" that she's NOT 100% ready to try and save your m? You have a big sense of entitlement or you are being a real Eyeore...snap out of it. anor. but I am doing a 180 and trying to look at it a positive m Thank God.
I am choosing to look at it like this. She isnt there 100% so that means she could be moving that direction. It means she is considering it. Um, yeah ^^^.
I have to take it as a good sign or my anxiety and impulse to talk things to death will drive me crazy. Then get some help. For you to take that comment as anything but good is not healthy and could very well cost you the m.
Of course it is already high since I am taking a beating on Facebook from her friends.
Get off Facebook. Be grateful she's not listening to all of them. Stay the course. Leave her alone, show the changes you are making are NOT tactics to get her back, (which they'll look like if you keep pushing her "to decide" or to "try and save the m" or whatever, all so you can feel better/it is fixed...it doesn't work that way. You cannot keep wanting HER to do or say 'x' b/c you have changed. Just do the changes and let her find her way.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
