Faith I tried that approach but as 25 says she has me totally whipped writing the rules of the game so that only she benefits, when i try to ask her to reconsider the rules she blames me of "changing my mind" it's her totally unfair way of dismissing my concerns and then blaming me as the inconsiderate one.
A: "Yes, wife, I changed my mind. I've done a lot of thinking, and I have decided that this no longer works for me."
Where is it written in life that you're not allowed to change your mind? Changing it away from an UNhealthy, DEstructive choice, and toward a healthier, constructive one, is called "personal growth" and "maturation."
