Will post a proper reply tomorrow. Bottomline I told her that this open thing was not working for either one of us. Told her that the jealousy we had stemmed from us being so insecure about our M. Told her that until we fix us an open marriage is just doomed for D.
Told her that before we even considered opening it we had to fix us. Told her marriage is about sacrifice, and that I could tell she wasnt willing to do that for me. Told her neither of us was allowed OP's until we had a good marriage. She said she didn't think she could do that. Told her marriage is about sacrificing for each others happiness, and if she couldnt do that we were destined to fail. We discussed other things but that's the key points.
