As a man, speaking to a man, you don't have to be whipped. You can stand up and lead. If she is irrational, then stand up for yourself. F her. She will only get away with what you allow.
Don't follow your feelings, pick a direction and go. My opinion, give her what she wants...even if it hurts.
I'm not being a jerk, but the whole she does this and she did this don't fly....Be a man and pick a direction, lead, and let go.
