Faith I tried that approach but as 25 says she has me totally whipped writing the rules of the game so that only she benefits, when i try to ask her to reconsider the rules she blames me of "changing my mind" it's her totally unfair way of dismissing my concerns and then blaming me as the inconsiderate one.
No I think I finally had enough. She can have her D if she is so intent on destroying the thing she had with the person that cared the most about her.
